Unlike Shakespeare’s Macbeth (Act 5, scene 5), I do not believe life is a poorly drawn out play, however it does go by rapidly and I find myself much more aware of time. No longer counting ticking off the months until a baby is born or counting the milestone in the life of a toddler. Instead I now notice time appears to have sped up, a mere illusion of course, yet with half of my life lived I realise now what I did not know then, cherish every single moment with loved ones, even the unpleasant ones. All began with me waking and thinking, “to-morrow and to-morrow and to-morrow…” I quoted the entire monologue in my head, yet shall spare the non-Shakespearean lovers.
My point? My baby is hitting “early adult” milestones and will be leaving the nest all too soon with his twin brothers closely following in his footsteps. These are exciting times for my oldest, who no doubt believes time has slowed down and bittersweet for me, as I have spent the past 18 years preparing him for this next phase in his life and realise I never prepared myself.
Any mums out there whose children have left the nest, I am looking of any and all advice. Until Monday I shall be with my sons….









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