Book Review: Little Princes by Conor Grennan


Title: Little Princes: One Man’s Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal
Author: Conor Grennan
Publisher: William Morrow
Publication Date: January 25, 2011
Hardcover: 304 pages
ISBN: 978-0061930058
Genre: Non-Fiction, History, Memoir

From the Publisher:

One Person Can Make a Difference

In search of adventure, twenty-nine-year-old Conor Grennan traded his day job for a year-long trip around the globe, a journey that began with a three-month stint volunteering at the Little Princes Children’s Home, an orphanage in war-torn Nepal.

Conor was initially reluctant to volunteer, unsure whether he had the proper skill, or enough passion, to get involved in a developing country in the middle of a civil war. But he was soon overcome by the herd of rambunctious, resilient children who would challenge and reward him in a way that he had never imagined. When Conor learned the unthinkable truth about their situation, he was stunned: The children were not orphans at all. Child traffickers were promising families in remote villages to protect their children from the civil war—for a huge fee—by taking them to safety. They would then abandon the children far from home, in the chaos of Nepal’s capital, Kathmandu.

For Conor, what began as a footloose adventure becomes a commitment to reunite the children he had grown to love with their families, but this would be no small task. He would risk his life on a journey through the legendary mountains of Nepal, facing the dangers of a bloody civil war and a debilitating injury. Waiting for Conor back in Kathmandu, and hopeful he would make it out before being trapped in by snow, was the woman who would eventually become his wife and share his life’s work.

Little Princes is a true story of families and children, and what one person is capable of when faced with seemingly insurmountable odds. At turns tragic, joyful, and hilarious, Little Princes is a testament to the power of faith and the ability of love to carry us beyond our wildest expectations.

My Review:

Not only did I read and enjoy Little Princes by Conor Grennan, but I also re-read it aloud to my family, went online to research the foundation Next Generation Nepal and found another passion, helping the displaced children of Nepal. While I would love to go on and on about the injustices that have been done to the families and the children, and trust me when I say there are too many unaccounted for, I am supposed to review the book Little Princes. Grennan writes about a very sad topic and in what could easily become a very depressing book, Grennan’s humour and the children’s loveable spirits shine through making the story informative, insightful, and stunningly beautiful. In the midst of a civil war, poverty and despair the reader is taken to Godawari where the Nepalese orphanage, Little Princes Children’s Home, is located. Grennan is upfront; he only agreed to volunteer there for three months before touring the world because it sounded less selfish than stating he was taking a year off to tour the world. Little did he know just how much these 18 children would mean to him, how they would work their way into his heart, and how he would be unable to get the injustice of human trafficking out of his mind. Little Princes is an astonishingly brilliant, straightforward, and brutally honest account of what occurred beginning in November of 2004 and how 18 children, volunteers, and events more dreadful than one could imagine, lead to the building of a foundation which is still going to this day (I will include links and hope everyone at least takes a look). I applaud Grennan for his honesty, his detailed and vivid descriptions of life in Godawari, Nepal, and for sharing with the world what has been going on for decades and needs to be stopped. If I could, I would place a copy of Little Princes into the hands of every reader. It is a book not to be missed.

About the Author:

Conor Grennan, author of the memoir Little Princes, spent eight years at the EastWest Institute (EWI), both in Prague and the EU Office in Brussels, where he served as Deputy Director for the Security and Governance Program.

At the East/West Institute, Conor developed and managed a wide variety of projects focusing on issues such as peace and reconciliation in the Balkans, community development in Central Eastern Europe, and harmonizing anti-trafficking policy at the highest levels government in the European Union and the former Yugoslavia.

Conor left EWI in 2004 to travel the world and volunteer in Nepal. He would eventually return to Nepal and found Next Generation Nepal, an organization dedicated to reconnecting trafficked children with their families and combating the root causes of child trafficking in rural villages in Nepal. He was based in the capital of Kathmandu until September 2007 where he was the Executive Director of Next Generation Nepal.

Conor now serves on the Board of Next Generation Nepal, together with his wife, Liz. He is a 2010 graduate of the NYU Stern School of Business, where he was the President of the Student Body. He lives in Connecticut with his wife and son, Finn, and a soon-to-be baby girl.

To learn more about Next Generation Nepal please visit the website.

I received a complimentary ARC copy of Little Princes by Conor Grennan from Shelf Awareness/William Morrow to review. Receiving a copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Review: Don’t Sing At The Table by Adriana Trigiani


Title: Don’t Sing at the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers
Author: Adriana Trigiani
Publisher: Harper
Publication Date: November 9, 2010
Hardcover: 224 pages
ISBN: 978-0061958946
Genre: Memoir

From the Publisher:

As devoted readers of Adriana Trigiani’s New York Times bestselling novels know, this “seemingly effortless storyteller” (Boston Globe) frequently draws inspiration from her own family history, in particular from the lives of her two remarkable grandmothers, who have found their way into all Trigiani’s cherished novels. In Don’t Sing at the Table, this much-beloved writer has gathered their estimable life lessons, revealing how her grandmothers’ simple values have shaped her own life, sharing the experiences, humor, and wisdom of her beloved mentors to delight readers of all ages.

Lucia Spada Bonicelli (Lucy) and Yolanda Perin Trigiani (Viola) lived through the twentieth century from beginning to end as working women who juggled careers and motherhood. From the factory line to the family table, Lucy and Viola, the very definition of modern women, cut a path for their granddaughter by demonstrating moxie and pluck in their fearless approach to life, love, and overcoming obstacles.

Lucy’s and Viola’s traditions and spiritual fortitude will encourage you to hold on to the values that make life rich and beautiful. Their entrepreneurial spirit will inspire you to take risks and reap the rewards. And their remarkable resilience in the face of tragedy will be a source of strength and comfort.

Trigiani visits the past to seek answers to the essential questions that define the challenges women face today at work and at home. This is a primer, grand-mother to granddaughter, filled with everyday wisdom and life lessons that are truly “tiramisu for the soul” (The Examiner), handed down with care and built to last.

My Review:

Beautiful, witty, and filled with well-learned lessons from two remarkable women, Don’t Sing At the Table: Life Lessons from My Grandmothers by Adriana Trigiani is an extraordinary tribute to her grandmothers Lucy and Viola and a tribute to women everywhere. Trigiani introduces the reader to her remarkable, inventive, creative, resourceful and wise grandmothers’ lives. The reader learns through Trigiani about Lucy and Viola, two women I would have liked to have known, and through their experiences, memories, pictures and advice, Trigiani helps the readers to know these two women. From how to choose the appropriate fabric to romance, no subject is left unexplored. I found Don’t Sing At the Table to be a beautiful, family-centered, loving tribute to not only Trigiani’s grandmothers, but to women everywhere and the wisdom that has been passed from generation to generation. Reading about the ups and downs in the lives of Lucy and Viola made me think fondly of my grandmothers, two strong hardworking women, one a farmer’s wife, the other an immigrant making her way in a new country with a language she did not understand. Don’t Sing At the Table is not to be missed and even though the reader cannot meet Lucy or Viola, the reader can learn from both of these remarkable women. I wholeheartedly recommend Don’t Sing At the Table to all readers.

To learn more about Adrian Trigiani and her books please visit her website.

I received a complimentary copy ofDon’t Sing At the Table by Adriana Trigiani from Harper Collins to review.  Receiving a copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Review: Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera


Title: Everything I Never Wanted To Be
Author: Dina Kucera
Publisher: Dream of Things
Publication Date: October 1, 2010
Paperback: 216 pages
ISBN: 978-0982579435
Genre: Non-Fiction, Memoir

From the Publisher:

Everything I Never Wanted to Be by Dina Kucera is the true story of a family’s battle with alcoholism and drug addiction. Dina’s grandfather and father were alcoholics. Her grandmother was a pill addict. Dina is an alcoholic and pill addict, and all three of her daughters struggle with alcohol and drug addiction—including her youngest daughter, who started using heroin at age fourteen.

Dina’s household also includes her husband and his unemployed identical twin; a mother who has Parkinson’s Disease; a grandson who has cerebral palsy; and other people who drift in and out of the household depending on their employment situation or rehab status. On top of all that, Dina is trying to make it as a stand-up comic and author so she can quit her crummy job as a grocery store clerk. Through it all, Dina does her best to hold her family together, keep her faith, and maintain her sense of humor.

As you might imagine, a story filled with alcoholics and drug addicts includes a number of horrific events. But in the end, Everything I Never Wanted to Be is an uplifting story that contains valuable lessons for parents and teens alike, and a strong message about the need to address the epidemic of teen drug addiction in our nation. It’s a book that can change behavior and save lives—and make you laugh along the way.

My Review:

Beautiful, raw, and brutally honest, Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera is an absolute must read memoir. Kucera is quite blunt when sharing the facts of her life, yet while the book could easily be a dark and depressing read, Kucera makes certain to add in her wit and charm to keep the reader from becoming depressed as the struggles of the author are described. Kucera opens her book as a grocery store cashier, she and her husband have been sober for almost a decade and are dealing with shortage of money, an overflowing home and fighting an ongoing battle with their youngest daughter Carly’s drug addiction. Kucera writes about growing up with alcoholic parents, her teen pregnancies and alcoholism, but focuses primarily on life, as it currently is, three wonderful daughters each with severe issues. I found the book to be very informative and at times rather uplifting as Kucera shows the power of love and humour. Everything I Never Wanted to Be is a book that should definitely be read by parents and teens alike as all too often we think addicts happen to other people and never dream it could happen in our own home. Kucera does not state she did not make mistakes, but rather she owns up to them and proceeds to offer advise to readers through the stories of her life and her struggles as an addict and as a quite sober and loving wife, mother, daughter, and grandmother. I highly recommend Everything I Never Wanted to Be to any reader, for it not only offers advise but answers questions as to how and why people become addicts and how one addiction can ruin many lives. Its most important message however is that through the adversity of addiction, survival is possible through love, strength, and having a sense of humour.

About the Author:

Dina Kucera was born and raised in Albuquerque, New Mexico. After completing a project to collect and identify fifty insects, she graduated from the ninth grade and left school for good. It seemed like a good idea at the time. Her first job was a paper route, and she has worked as a maid, bartender, waitress, and grocery store checker. Dina has also been a stand-up comic for twenty years, for which she receives payment ranging from a small amount of money to a very, very small amount of money. When it comes to awards and recognition, she was once nominated for a Girl Scout sugar cookie award, but she never actually received the award because her father decided to stop at a bar instead of going to the award ceremony. Dina waited on the curb outside the bar, repeatedly saying to panhandlers, “Sorry. I don’t have any money. I’m seven.” Dina is married with three daughters, one stepson, and one grandson. She currently lives in Phoenix, Arizona.

Her latest book is Everything I Never Wanted to Be. You can find out more about her book at www.everythinginever.com or visit her personal website at www.dinakucera.com.

For more reviews of the book, please follow the book tour.

I received a complimentary copy of Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera from TLC Book Tours to be a part of this tour and offer my honest review of the book. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned book.

Book Review: What I Thought I Knew by Alice Eve Cohen


Title: What I Thought I Knew
Author: Alice Eve Cohen
Publisher: Penguin (Non-Classics); 1 edition
Publication Date: May 25, 2010
Paperback: 208 pages
ISBN: 978-0143117650
Genre: Memoir

From the Publisher:

Alice Cohen was happy for the first time in years. After a difficult divorce, she had a new love in her life, she was rais­ing a beloved adopted daughter, and her career was blossoming. Then she started experiencing mysterious symptoms. After months of tests, x-rays, and inconclusive diagnoses, Alice underwent a CAT scan that revealed the truth: she was six months pregnant.

At age forty-four, with no prenatal care and no insurance coverage for a high-risk pregnancy, Alice was besieged by opinions from doctors and friends about what was ethical, what was loving, what was right. With the intimacy of a diary and the suspense of a thriller, What I Thought I Knew is a ruefully funny, wickedly candid tale; a story of hope and renewal that turns all of the “knowns” upside down.

My Review:

Beautiful, at times heart-breaking, and at all times human, What I Thought I Knew by Alice Eve Cohen is a deeply intense memoir filled with truth, honesty, and raw emotion that quickly draws the reader into the book and holds one’s attention until the very last word. Cohen has a refreshingly honest and witty approach to her memoir, which is filled with some rather deep and emotional material. While the book is a quick read, it is one to think about and as much as I would like to go into detail, it would give too much of Cohen’s story away. What I Thought I Knew is written in an almost suspenseful manner and I was unable to set the book down. My only regret was that I did not have anyone to discuss the events of the book with. I have always been a memoir fan, but there is something special about the manner in which Cohen writes her book. It is not the typical memoir therefore I would recommend What I Thought I Knew to everyone, even those who may not care for memoirs since this one is written in a much different format. I do believe What I Thought I Knew would make an excellent discussion group selection.

About the Author:

Alice Eve Cohen is a playwright, solo theater artist, and memoirist. She has written for Nickelodeon and PBS and received fellowships and grants from the New York State Council on the Arts and the National Endowment for the Arts. She teaches at The New School in New York City.

I received a complimentary copy of What I Thought I Knew by Alice Eve Cohen from BookSparks PR. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Review: Running The Books by Avi Steinberg


Title: Running the Books: The Adventures of an Accidental Prison Librarian
Author: Avi Steinberg
Publisher: Nan A. Talese
Publication Date: October 19, 2010
Hardcover: 416 pages
ISBN: 978-0385529099
Genre: Memoir

From the Publisher:

Avi Steinberg is stumped. After defecting from yeshiva to Harvard, he has only a senior thesis essay on Bugs Bunny to show for his effort. While his friends and classmates advance in the world, he remains stuck at a crossroads, unable to meet the lofty expectations of his Orthodox Jewish upbringing. And his romantic existence as a freelance obituary writer just isn’t cutting it. Seeking direction—and dental insurance—Steinberg takes a job as a librarian in a tough Boston prison.

The prison library counter, his new post, attracts con men, minor prophets, ghosts, and an assortment of quirky regulars searching for the perfect book and a connection to the outside world. There’s an anxious pimp who solicits Steinberg’s help in writing a memoir. A passionate gangster who dreams of hosting a cooking show titled Thug Sizzle. A disgruntled officer who instigates a major feud over a Post-it note. A doomed ex-stripper who asks Steinberg to orchestrate a reunion with her estranged son, himself an inmate. Over time, Steinberg is drawn into the accidental community of outcasts that has formed among his bookshelves — a drama he recounts with heartbreak and humor. But when the struggles of the prison library — between life and death, love and loyalty — become personal, Steinberg is forced to take sides.

Running the Books is a trenchant exploration of prison culture and an entertaining tale of one young man’s earnest attempt to find his place in the world while trying not to get fired in the process.

My Review:

Absolutely stunning, Running The Books: The Adventure of an Accidental Prison Librarian by Avi Steinberg is a surprising gem of a memoir and one I thoroughly enjoyed. Steinberg introduces us to his life, as a young Harvard graduate and lapsed Orthodox Jew, searching for what to do with his life. After a stint of writing obituaries, Steinberg quickly realises he needs a job that pays well and offers benefits which leads him to become the librarian at a Boston prison. Steinberg’s memoir is expertly written, taking the reader deep into not only Steinberg’s life, but also into the lives of those who work or are incarcerated within the prison. Alternating from deadly serious to light hearted and funny, Running The Books will take the reader on an extraordinary ride as Steinberg learns the ropes of prison life and the hierarchy of which he is the lowest. Vividly detailed and descriptive, I must point out that considering the very nature of the book, Steinberg does indeed use strong language and prison slang, a warning for those easily offended. The use of the language did not offend me considering the context in which it is used, yet I would have been remiss not to mention it. Running The Books: The Adventure of an Accidental Prison Librarian is a thoroughly engaging and intriguing memoir and is written in a unique manner, one that appears to mature as Steinberg finds his way. I truly enjoyed Running The Books: The Adventure of an Accidental Prison Librarian and highly recommend it to anyone looking for a slightly different type of book or anyone who enjoys memoirs.

About the Author:

AVI STEINBERG was born in Jerusalem and raised in Cleveland and Boston. His work has appeared in the Boston Globe, the New York Review of Books, Salon, and other publications. To learn more please visit his website.

I received a complimentary copy of Running the Books by Avi Steinberg from Doubleday to review. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Tour: Unstoppable In Stilettos by Lauren Ruotolo


Title: Unstoppable in Stilettos: A Girl’s Guide to Living Tall in a Small World
Authors: Lauren Ruotolo
Publisher: HCI
Publication Date: October 1, 2010
Paperback: 200 pages
ISBN: 978-0757315145
Genre: Memoirs

I cannot give a true rating since the book arrived too late for me to read for this tour. However based on what I have flipped trough this is a book not to be missed.

About the Book:

How to Live Large Every Day and Kick Butt Along the Way!

How does a girl who was originally predicted to live a wheelchair-bound existence become adventurous, self-assured, successful, and . . . unflappable? Standing 4 feet 2 inches tall in flats (which she would never be caught dead in, anyway), Lauren Ruotolo has spent her thirty-four-ish years seeing the world from a unique angle—upward facing. Lauren was born with McCune-Albright syndrome, a mysterious and rare genetic disease that researchers say occurs in anywhere between 1 in 100,000 and 1 in 1 million people. Some people with the condition tend to go the wheelchair route, but that was never a road Lauren wanted to travel. Her preferred method of transportation, instead, includes stiletto heels. Lauren has avoided the label of ‘disabled’ through uniquely discovering who she really is, and now you, too, can learn the secrets to living life in a big way.

In Unstoppable in Stilettos, Lauren offers you ‘Lauren’s Lessons,’ in which she shares her hard-earned wisdom and life experiences to offer you a unique brand of life philosophies that you can apply to any of the rights of passages you may be experiencing as a Twenty-first Century Woman, including:

* Navigating social pressures
* Avoiding the label game
* Overcoming insecurities
* Combating career confusion
* Turning rejection and obstacles into triumph
* Dealing with toxic people
* Discovering true self-expression
* and so much more.

With Unstoppable in Stilettos you will have the tools to carve out your own path to self-confidence, success, and individualism . . . and have a blast along the way.

My Review:

Unfortunately, Unstoppable In Stilettos by Lauren Ruotolo did not arrive in time for me to review it for my tour. However from the quick flip through I have done, I can tell this will be a memoir I will truly learn and grow from and one I will read as soon as my schedule allows. I hope others will follow the tour, read the reviews and consider Unstoppable In Stilettos.

About the Author:

Lauren Ruotolo is the director of entertainment promotions at Hearst Magazines in New York City, where she is responsible for developing strategic key partnerships with television and cable networks, music labels, and movie studios. She recently helped produce E!’s Style Network show about the inner workings at Marie Claire fashion magazine and is working on two one-hour specials with Scripps Networks for Esquire and Food Network Magazine. Lauren joined Hearst Magazines from TV Guide magazine, where she was the director of consumer marketing and promotions and created the first-ever newsstand promotion in the United States with a CD on the cover. Ruotolo’s first-person essay, ‘Get Shorty,’ which shared her philosophies on living with the rare genetic disorder McCune-Albright syndrome, was published in Marie Claire magazine in 2009 and was one of the most responded-to articles in the magazine’s history. Ruotolo is on the advisory board of GlamourGals Foundation, Inc., Love Our Children USA, and is an active member in the New York chapter of Women in Communications.

For more reviews of the book, please follow the book tour.

I received a complimentary copy of Unstoppable In Stilettos by Lauren Ruotolo from TLC Book Tours to be a part of this tour and offer my honest review of the book. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned book.

Book Review: Lost Lustre by Josh Karlen


Title: Lost Lustre: A New York Memoir
Author: Josh Karlen
Publisher: Tatra Press
Publication Date: October 16, 2010
Paperback: 250 pages
ISBN: 978-0981932118
Genre: Non-fiction, Memoir

From the Publisher:

Muggings on Avenue C, punk bands at CBGB, parties in a nascent SoHo, dropping out from the famous Music & Art High School. In this episodic, coming-of-age memoir, Josh Karlen chronicles growing up in New York’s Greenwich Village and crime-ridden Alphabet City in the 70s and early 80s. Lost Lustre recaptures a New York suffering its gravest financial crisis and soaring crime, yet staging a spectacular resurgence of the arts. Karlen shares a fascinating personal history of the punk rock scene through the prism of The Lustres, a band that played venues that launched the Talking Heads, Patti Smith and the Ramones. In the title chapter, Karlen poignantly pays homage to the band’s charismatic and talented lead singer, whose life in many ways seemed to mirror his times in both its shining creativity and nihilistically destructive force.

My Review:

Lost Lustre: A New York Memoir by Josh Karlen is an extensive memoir into the changing arts scene throughout the decades. While I enjoy history and memoirs I get a bit lost when it comes to music. Karlen managed to capture my interest and I found the historical aspects of Lost Lustre to be rather insightful and it offers an intriguing look into the changing times of the New York cultural scene. Karlen is a gifted writer and easily takes the reader back in time to various movements in the 60s, his tone is one of a friend having a conversation over coffee, lending to a familiarity about the book without being overly casual. Karlen vividly describes what it was like growing up on the lower east side of Manhattan, when it was not an overly glamorous place to be. Karlen takes the reader through the 60s and 70s and takes a look back over those turbulent times as he grew up in those eras. While Lost Lustre was not a memoir that I was enthralled with, I think it may intrigue those readers who are fascinated with the history of New York and those intrigued my the changing music scenes through the decades.

About the Author:

Josh Karlen, a former journalist, grew up on the Lower East Side and in the Village. He lives with his wife and two children in Manhattan. He currently works in media relations.

For more reviews of the book, please follow the book tour.

I received a complimentary copy of Lost Lustre by Josh Karlen from TLC Book Tours to be a part of this tour and offer my honest review of the book. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned book.

Book Review and Tour: Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera


Title: Everything I Never Wanted To Be
Author: Dina Kucera
Publisher: Dream of Things
Publication Date: October 1, 2010
Paperback: 216 pages
ISBN: 978-0982579435
Genre: Non-Fiction, Memoir

Book Synopsis:

Everything I Never Wanted to Be is the true story of a family’s battle with alcoholism and drug addiction. Dina’s grandfather and father were alcoholics. Her grandmother was a pill addict. Dina is an alcoholic and pill addict, and all three of her daughters struggle with alcohol and drug addiction—including her youngest daughter, who started using heroin at age fourteen. Dina’s household also includes her husband and his unemployed identical twin, her mother who has Parkinson’s Disease, and her grandson who has cerebral palsy. On top of all that, Dina is trying to make it as a stand-up comic and author so she can quit her crummy job as a grocery store clerk. Through it all, Dina does her best to hold her family together, keep her faith, and maintain her sense of humor.

Everything I Never Wanted to Be includes a number of horrific events. But in the end, it is an uplifting story with valuable lessons for parents and teens alike, and a strong message about the need to address the epidemic of teen drug addiction in our nation.

It’s a book that can change behavior and save lives—and make you laugh along the way.

My Review:

Beautiful, raw, and brutally honest, Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera is an absolute must read memoir.  Kucera is quite blunt when sharing the facts of her life, yet while the book could easily be a dark and depressing read, Kucera makes certain to add in her wit and charm to keep the reader from becoming depressed as the struggles of the author are described.  Kucera opens her book as a grocery store cashier, she and her husband have been sober for almost a decade and are dealing with shortage of money, an overflowing home and fighting an ongoing battle with their youngest daughter Carly’s drug addiction.  Kucera writes about growing up with alcoholic parents, her teen pregnancies and alcoholism, but focuses primarily on life, as it currently is, three wonderful daughters each with severe issues.  I found the book to be very informative and at times rather uplifting as Kucera shows the power of love and humour.  Everything I Never Wanted to Be is a book that should definitely be read by parents and teens alike as all too often we think addicts happen to other people and never dream it could happen in our own home.  Kucera does not state she did not make mistakes, but rather she owns up to them and proceeds to offer advise to readers through the stories of her life and her struggles as an addict and as a quite sober and loving wife, mother, daughter, and grandmother.  I highly recommend Everything I Never Wanted to Be to any reader, for it not only offers advise but answers questions as to how and why people become addicts and how one addiction can ruin many lives. Its most important message however is that through the adversity of addiction, survival is possible through love, strength, and having a sense of humour.

About the Author:

Dina Kucera was born and raised in Albuquerque, New Mexico. After completing a project to collect and identify fifty insects, she graduated from the ninth grade and left school for good. It seemed like a good idea at the time. Her first job was a paper route, and she has worked as a maid, bartender, waitress, and grocery store checker. Dina has also been a stand-up comic for twenty years, for which she receives payment ranging from a small amount of money to a very, very small amount of money. When it comes to awards and recognition, she was once nominated for a Girl Scout sugar cookie award, but she never actually received the award because her father decided to stop at a bar instead of going to the award ceremony. Dina waited on the curb outside the bar, repeatedly saying to panhandlers, “Sorry. I don’t have any money. I’m seven.” Dina is married with three daughters, one stepson, and one grandson. She currently lives in Phoenix, Arizona.

Her latest book is Everything I Never Wanted to Be. You can find out more about her book at www.everythinginever.com or visit her personal website at www.dinakucera.com.


Dina Kucera’s EVERYTHING I NEVER WANTED TO BE VIRTUAL BOOK TOUR ‘10 officially begins on November 1 and ends on November 26, ‘10. You can visit Dina’s blog stops here during the month of November to find out more about this great book and talented author!

I received a complimentary copy of Everything I Never Wanted To Be by Dina Kucera from Pump Up Your Book Promotion as part of the tour. Receiving a copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Review: When Life Throws You Lemons Make Cranberry Juice by Shari Bookstaff


Title: When Life Throws You Lemons Make Cranberry Juice
Author: Shari Bookstaff
Publisher: PublishAmerica
Publication Date: October 26, 2009
Paperback: 131 pages
ISBN: 978-1607496335
Genre: Memoir

About the Book:

When my kids were learning to walk, I remember walking behind them, ready to catch them if they stumbled backward. I never dreamed that thirteen years later my kids would be walking behind me, ready to catch me if I stumbled backward.

I was 42 years old when I was diagnosed with a benign, operable, brain tumor. Doctors predicted a short hospital stay followed by a speedy recovery. Complications arose, giving me unexpected life-long obstacles.

A divorced mother of two beautiful, talented, wonderful children, I had high hopes for a bright and happy future. I had a secure job that I loved, and I was beginning to date again when my brain tumor was diagnosed.

My life since that fateful day has been focused on regaining basic human functions: breathing, swallowing, walking, etc. I am working again, and trying to be a good mother to my two beautiful, talented, wonderful children.

Putting a positive spin on life’s disasters doesn’t always work, but looking for, and accepting, positive things in spite of life’s disasters works. Instead of making lemonade out of lemons, I add life’s sweet sugar and cranberries to my lemons. This makes life much more palatable.

My Review:

As a stroke survivor I was very interested in When Life Throws You Lemons Make Cranberry Juice by Shari Bookstaff.  While it is an autobiography of Shari’s life, focusing primarily on the years after her divorce in 2005 and leading up to her diagnosis of a benign brain tumor in 2006, it is not about strokes and not necessarily about tumors, rather about the complications from Shari’s brain surgery and the courage it took her to want to continue on.   By the time Shari learns of her tumor, she is a divorced mother of two with a wonderful support network of family and friends.  Shari’s operation that was supposed to require a few days of hospitalization instead resulted in a grueling nine-month stay, forever altering Shari’s life.  Shari’s was blessed with a lot of friends (she would call them cranberries) willing to help her and her children out, she also had her career which was able to work with her, and two fantastic, resilient, and helpful children.  Not everything went Shari’s way, in fact some things were downright dreadful and unfair.  Shari takes a unique approach to finding things to be happy about and to keep herself from falling back into a deep depressive state.  Shari does not tell her story in a strictly linear pattern which at times makes the story appear disjointed and confusing.  Shari and her children are quite courageous and her experiences are to be learned from, just go into the book knowing that the story will be all over the place with a lot of characters the reader does not get to know. While I would have preferred a more polished, linear and in-depth book, Shari’s message is loud and clear and well worth reading about and learning.

About the Author:

Shari Bookstaff grew up in Milwaukee, WI, dreaming of becoming a marine biologist. She made it to California and is currently a biology professor, teaching at a community college near San Francisco. While her specialty is marine mammals, she recently expanded her course offerings to include a class on the human brain. Inspired by her own medical trials, Shari continues to merge her personal and professional interests.

Shari lives with her two children (and two dogs) in a small town just south of San Francisco, near the ocean. While her disabilities make life harder, she is determined to continue walking on the beach, attending concerts, and cheering at football games.


Shari Bookstaff’s WHEN LIFE THROWS YOU LEMONS VIRTUAL BOOK TOUR ‘10 officially began on October 4 and ends on December 17. You can visit Shari’s blog tour stops here during the months of October, November and December to find out more about this great book and talented author!

I received a complimentary copy of When Life Throws You Lemons Make Cranberry Juice by Shari Bookstaff from Pump Up Your Book Promotion as part of the tour. Receiving a copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

Book Review: Perfection by Julie Metz


Title: Perfection
Author: Julie Metz
Publisher: Voice; Reprint edition
Publication Date: May 18, 2010
Paperback: 352 pages
ISBN: 978-1401341350
Genre: Memoir

From the Publisher:

Julie Metz had seemingly the perfect life—an adoring husband, a happy, spirited daughter, a lovely old house in a quaint suburban town—but it was all a lie.

Julie Metz’s life changed forever on one ordinary January afternoon when her husband, Henry, collapsed on the kitchen floor and died in her arms. Suddenly, this mother of a six-year-old became the young widow in her bucolic small town. But that was only the beginning. Seven months after Henry’s death, just when Julie thought she was emerging from the worst of it, came the rest of it: She discovered that what had appeared to be the reality of her marriage was but a half-truth. Henry had hidden another life from her.

Perfection is the story of Metz’s journey through chaos and transformation as she creates a different life for herself and for her young daughter. It is the story of rebuilding both a life and an identity after betrayal and widowhood, of rebirth and happiness—if not perfection.

My Review:

Julie Metz’s memoir, Perfection, is definitely a book that gives one pause, or at least it made me ponder throughout reading it and long thereafter.  Julie’s husband dies and she is left to raise their young daughter and soon discovers Henry had been cheating on her, which comes as quite a shock as she believed them to be a loving family.  Julie could have left it at that yet chose, for her own reasons, to probe deeper, to find answers and the truth.  Perfection is a deeply dark and at times heart-wrenching memoir and I could not help but ponder why she needed to so desperately know.  I realise we all have our own reasons and I think had I been in her shoes I would have preferred to recall the marriage as a happy one, but I cannot truly say, thankfully I was not in Julie Metz’s shoes.  I was truly intrigued by Julie’s transformation and the re-inventing, if you will, of herself, her beliefs, and her life.  Perfection is indeed a most intriguing memoir and at times rather sad and painful, but also transformative and uplifting and one I would recommend.  I believe Perfection would make for a brilliant discussion group choice, as Metz offers up so many choices to discuss.

About the Author:

Julie Metz is a graphic designer, artist, and freelance writer whose essays have appeared in publications including Glamour and the New York Times. The recipient of a MacDowell Fellowship, she lives in Brooklyn, New York, with her family.

I received a complimentary copy of Perfection by Julie Metz from BookSparks PR. Receiving a complimentary copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.