What Is Friendship?

“The friendship that can cease has never been real.”
- Saint Jerome

I have been pondering this quote, which has given me more questions than answers.

What is friendship? I am not asking a rhetorical question, I am quite serious. Does friendship thrive only in good times or is a friend some who makes time, be it in person, a telephone call, or a letter? Can true friendships (I am referring to adult friendships) end?

It seems to me that friends should mutually support each other in good and bad times, not just when it is convenient for one or the other. I may be naive. I may be too optimistic (not something I am usually accused of). I do know we are all busy, life is busy. However friendships are formed even when people are busy, so how is it then that friendships could be so easily discarded due to lack of time?

Sadly, I believe Saint Jerome may be correct, yet I desperately hope to be proven wrong.

Does anyone have any thoughts, wisdom, or insight?

*EDITED: While being domestic I thought more about this post and realised reason 1, 023 why I am not a writer, I assume people know what I am thinking.

1) This post is about my personal life outside my blog. The only drama I blog about is in my book reviews. I do not participate in blog drama, I find it useless, so please know this post is about my life outside Rundpinne.

2) I am referring to very long-time friendships, deep friendships where the people involved know each other secrets, dreams, fears, hopes, and disappointments. The friend that can be called at 3am just because.

3) It is rather unusual of me to post personal posts, so again, I apologise if I wrote this in an awkward manner. This is just a momentary blip in my book reviews, I have review that shall be up in 10 hours. :)

4) I truly am seeking advise, so continue commenting, please.

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Book Review: Web of Secrets by Ernesto Patino

Title: Web of Secrets
Author: Ernesto Patino
Publisher: L&L Dreamspell
Publication Date: June 2009
Paperback: 195 pages
ISBN: 978-1-60318-124-2
Genre: Mystery

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About the Novel:

Some family history is too dangerous to be revealed. Sarah Baker’s search for the truth about her adoption uncovered a tangled web of deadly secrets:

A phone call from a blackmailer turned Sarah’s life upside down. The man claimed to know the circumstances of her illegal adoption thirty years ago. He also revealed some shocking facts about her real parents. Rather than have the blackmailer go public with the information and risk her husband’s career, she agreed to a one-time payoff. Their situation was far from resolved, and doubts about her heritage put a strain on their once ideal marriage. Sarah still didn’t have verification of the truth. She needed more details. Were there any brothers or sisters, or other family members nearby? Had the same blackmailer approached them too? Hiring a Private Investigator seemed the only option, but it meant opening a Pandora’s box. Sarah needed confirmation and closure, and was willing to take the risk.

Ex FBI investigator turned P. I. Joe Coopersmith was up to the task, but working on a thirty-year-old mystery wouldn’t be easy. Joe didn’t realize it might also turn deadly…

My Review:

Web of Secrets by Ernesto Patino is a story of blackmail, illegal adoptions, and the search for the truth. Sarah was adopted thirty years ago and never knew anything about her birth parents but upon receiving a mysterious phone call, then a letter blackmailing her into payment or the sordid details of her inter-racial birth parents and her illegal adoption will be made public, she did not know where to turn. Sarah hires a private investigator to uncover the truth as Patino writes an interesting story about the hunt for Sarah’s birth parents. Patino paints an in-depth portrait of the life of a private investigator, in this instance, P.I. Coopersmith and the joys and dangers that come with the job. Without adding spoiler alerts, I really did not understand some of the issues regarding the race of the parents and most of the characters felt flat to me. However, the book moves at a fast clip and weaves together many tales the P.I. uncovers leading to a conclusion that is surprising.

About the author:

Ernesto Patino grew up in El Paso where he graduated from the University of Texas at El Paso. He received a Bachelor of Music degree and taught school for a couple of years before joining the FBI as a Special Agent. His career spanned 23 years, most of which were spent in South Florida. He now lives in Tucson, Arizona, and divides his time between writing and working as a private investigator.

Ernesto is the author of a children’s book, A Boy named Paco, and a novel, In the Shadow of a Stranger, which was published in England. When he is not working as a P.I. or writing a book, you can usually find him at a local dance studio where he continually strives to perfect his skills as a ballroom dancer. For more information visit his website.

I received a complimentary copy of Web of Secrets by Ernesto Patino from AME to review. Receiving a free copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

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Book Review and Tour: Skin and Bones by D.C. Corso

Title: Skin and Bones
Author: D.C. Corso
Publisher: Bennett & Hastings
Publication Date: October 1, 2009
Paperback: 162 pages
ISBN: 978-1934733387
Genre: Psychological Thriller

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About the Book:

FBI Special Agent Severin Ash lives in a world haunted by people he’s never even met — the missing and the dead. Working out of Seattle’s field office, Ash is assigned to coordinate a child abduction investigation in the small island community of Carver Isle, WA. The case at first seems to be open-and-shut, but when another child disappears on Halloween, Ash realizes it’s far from over. He teams up with local woman Parker Kelly, who has her own ideas about what may be happening. Together, Ash and Parker must solve this puzzle of deceit, identity and manipulation, exhuming secrets and memories both would prefer to leave undisturbed.

Set against the chaotic backdrop of the days immediately following 9/11, D.C. Corso’s stark thriller paints a vivid picture of life in a small Pacific Northwestern town as national tragedy threatens to overshadow its own losses.

My Review:

When is a nightmare simply a nightmare versus reality? Skin and Bones by D.C. Corso is a short novel packed with mysterious disappearances and an intriguing ensemble of characters. Skin and Bones takes places shortly after 9/11 and most people are more concerned with the safety of the nation than worrying about their neighbours and the residents of Carver Isle in the Pacific Northwest are no different. It is not until a child goes missing that the residents realise there is a monster skulking about the neighbourhoods. A full-scale joint investigation between the local sheriff’s department and the FBI begins. Corso tells an intriguing and multi-layered narrative with several plot twists along the way, especially in the form of Parker Kelly’s dreams. The characters are realistic, believable, and either likeable or not, depending on which character is being discussed. Corso’s use of literature makes the novel even more of an intriguing read, especially the use of Lewis Carroll’s Alice In Wonderland and Henry James’ novel, The Turn of the Screw. With so much information, I would have liked to have seen the book longer as there was enough information to run with, however, Corso does skillfully tie in the lose ends. Skin and Bones is a fast-paced, action packed thriller which provides for a few hours of mental delight.

About the Author:

D.C. Corso, a Bay Area native, began life reading Nancy Drew books and writing stories featuring her sister’s cat, Fonzie. She likes to think she has become more discriminating over the years in both reading and writing material. While working at a law firm and going to college, she interned at The Nose magazine, and then later worked in PR for the animators of Colossal Pictures. After much practice over the years–not to mention blood, sweat and tears (well, late nights, anyway)–she produced Skin and Bones, her debut novel. She now lives with her husband, Michael, in the San Francisco Bay Area. You can visit D.C. at her website.

D.C. Corso’s SKIN AND BONES VIRTUAL BLOG TOUR ‘10 officially began on April 5 and will end on April 23 2010. Follow the tour during the month of April to find out more about this great book and talented author!

I received a complimentary copy of Skin and Bones by D.C. Corso from Pump Up Your Book Promotion as part of the tour. Receiving a copy in no way reflected my review of aforementioned novel.

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